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AnnouncementsAdded ›02/07/2008 4:54:14 PM
New Brick Paper Shredding May 13th at Public Works site at 836 Ridge Road Ridge Road - last edited 4/28/2011
New Drunken Raisins an Old remedy don't drive if you eat them! Better yet just eat raisins! - last edited 4/26/2011
New Guidelines of diagnoses of Alheimer's Disease - last edited 4/21/2011
Medicare Payments for diagnostic Radiology Multi million errors - last edited 4/20/2011
Macular Degeneration cell therapy - last edited 4/19/2011
Caregiving - last edited 4/19/2011
Brain starts shrinking 10 yrs. before the onset of Alzheimer's disease - last edited 4/19/2011
May Calendar - last edited 4/15/2011
Serving Our Veterans - last edited 4/12/2011
Chronic Disease Self Managament classes - last edited 4/8/2011
May Annual Health Fair - last edited 4/8/2011
Epsilon email Marketing firm Security Breach - last edited 4/8/2011
Aging & Eye Health - last edited 4/1/2011
Dental Health and Mental Health - last edited 4/1/2011
Learn More about the Affordable Care Act - last edited 4/1/2011
Are you 60 yrs or older? Sign up for Craft Class - last edited 3/31/2011
April 2011 calendar - last edited 3/31/2011
OCEAN RIDE TRANSPORTATION FOR SENIORS - last edited 3/23/2011
CAREGIVER RESOURCES PART1 - last edited 3/23/2011
Alzheimer's Research Update - last edited 3/15/2011
Emergency Planning for special Needs Community - last edited 3/10/2011
What happens w/Social Security if Fed's shut down - last edited 3/7/2011
Social Security & Disability Update! - last edited 3/7/2011
Juggling languages can build better brains - last edited 2/23/2011
Property Tax Reimbursement (Freeze) - last edited 2/11/2011
Brain Aerobics Class meets at Town Hall on the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of each month from 1:00 pm - last edited 2/9/2011
Info on Dry Macular Degeneration - last edited 2/9/2011
10 questions for each of 3 major diseases - last edited 2/1/2011
Take Control of your Chronic conditions Workshop - last edited 2/1/2011
Common Corneal Condition assocoated w/increased Eye Pressure - last edited 1/28/2011
Financial Assistance for Macular Degeneration Medications - last edited 1/28/2011
Alzeheimer's Disease Research - last edited 1/28/2011
Alzeheimer's Disease Research - last edited 1/26/2011
Senior programs ready for 2011 - last edited 1/13/2011
New website teaches children about Macular degeneration - last edited 12/23/2010
Omega 3's may help with Macular Degeneration - last edited 12/23/2010
Alzheimer's Disease Research study - last edited 12/23/2010
January 2011 Calendar - last edited 12/22/2010
Medicare and Medicaid Extenders Act of 2010, - last edited 12/13/2010
Walking may slow cognitive decline in Alzheimer's Disease - last edited 12/9/2010
Nutrition Prograns renewed funding in 2011 - last edited 12/9/2010
Rutgers Senior Citizen Audit program Free - last edited 12/7/2010
EEOC Explores Plight of Older Workers in current Economic Climate - last edited 12/6/2010
Supplements Fish oil DHA - last edited 11/19/2010
Ocean County Senior Citizens program Outline - last edited 11/15/2010
Heavy Smoking Doubles Alzheiner's Dementia Risk - last edited 10/31/2010
Unofficial postcard schemes to solicit seniors to purchase insurance - last edited 10/28/2010
Ocean County Raises Awareness About Silver Alert - last edited 10/26/2010
Discovery Shows Promise to Restore Lost Vision - last edited 9/21/2010
Reusable finger stick devices - last edited 9/20/2010
How many calories should you eat in One day? - last edited 9/17/2010
(HHS) Medicare Expands Coverage of Tobacco Cessation Counseling - last edited 8/30/2010
Insulin Resistance, Type 2 Diabetes Linked to plaques associated w/Alzeimer's Disease - last edited 8/27/2010
Glaucoma Questions and Answers - last edited 8/24/2010
Early Stages of Age-Related Macular Degeneration - last edited 8/24/2010
Alzheimer's Disease Research - last edited 8/24/2010
Are you at risk for a stroke? - last edited 8/16/2010
Medicare Changes in 2011 - last edited 8/9/2010
Tai Chi Classes 2 X per week at your Senior Ctr - last edited 7/29/2010
Chair Aerobics Classes - last edited 7/29/2010
Why more education lowers Dementia - last edited 7/28/2010
Usted podría calificar para recibir un cheque de $250 que le ayude a pagar medicamentos recetados - last edited 7/26/2010
Early Stages of Age Related Macular Degeneration - last edited 7/22/2010
Dementia in Non- Diabetics differs from Diabetics - last edited 7/22/2010
Alzheimer's Found in Retinas of Humans - last edited 7/22/2010
Alzheimer's Disease Research - last edited 7/22/2010
A free ceramics painting class. Must sign up - last edited 7/21/2010
National Caregiver Conference For all Caregivers - last edited 7/20/2010
NJ Olympics Games - last edited 7/16/2010
Alzheimer's Disease Research - last edited 7/12/2010
Training for Senior Citizens and Jobs in Community Service - last edited 7/12/2010
Delicious Orchards Bus Trip Sept. 21,2010!!! - last edited 6/30/2010
Medicare Rebate Alert Checks BE CAREFUL!!! - last edited 6/17/2010
2010 Standarized Medicare Supplement Plans - last edited 5/27/2010
Medicare and the New Health Law & What it means for you - last edited 5/27/2010
More Coverage Gap Info from the Center for Medicare and Medicaid Services - last edited 5/27/2010
Rutgers Osher Lifelong Learning 50 yrs. + Fall classes - last edited 5/18/2010
MACULAR DEGENERATION FACTS - last edited 4/20/2010
Brain Aerobics Class restarts in September 2010. - last edited 4/2/2010
Free College classes eligibility 65 yrs. and older - last edited 3/4/2010
Alhzeimers Update - last edited 2/12/2010
County ID Cards - last edited 1/8/2010
Rutgers University classes for Seniors FREE - last edited 12/22/2009
STATEWIDE BENEFITS - last edited 10/15/2009
The NJ SHARES HELP W/WATER ENERGY AND TELPHONE - last edited 9/29/2009
SELF DEFENSE for people 60 yrs and older - last edited 9/16/2009
50 Ways To Boost Your Noodle - last edited 8/18/2009
Project Icebox Pouches available to Brick Twp. Residents at your senior center - last edited 6/26/2009
SITES FOR SENIOR EMPLOYMENT - last edited 6/24/2009
Register for Ball Room Dance Class!! - last edited 6/18/2009
Novo Nordisk termination w/PAAD & Senior Gold - last edited 6/18/2009
Scam Alert Medicare - last edited 6/18/2009
Consumer Alert - last edited 6/11/2009
Multicultural Club accepting new members - last edited 1/16/2009
CHAIR AEROBICS DAILY AT BRICK SENIOR CTR. - last edited 1/16/2009
Booker Health Sciences Library - last edited 8/5/2008
POISON HELP 1-800-222-1222 - last edited 7/21/2008
May Annual Health Fair
Added ›04/08/2011 12:19:33 PM
The Health Fair provided by Meridian  yearly will be held at the Senior Center on MAY 4th from 10:00 am -1:00pm.  Please fast for aacurate test results.  You may register by calling 732-920-8686.
Epsilon email Marketing firm Security Breach
Added ›04/08/2011 12:01:16 PM

Some of you may be aware that there was recently a security breach at a company called “Epsilon”, a marketing and advertising company in Dallas.  The security breach includes only names and email addresses.  They claim that no other personal information was compromised.  Many major corporations utilize Epsilon to do their email marketing.  Here is small list of some of those companies:

 

·         Citibank

·         JP Morgan Chase

·         Capital One

·         Verizon

·         US Bank

·         Target

·         Best Buy

·         Astra Zeneca

·         Walgreens

·         Home Shopping Network

·         Dell

·         M&T Bank

 

Due to this breach, almost everyone can expect to see a larger number of emails at home and work that could be spam or a phishing scam.  Some of these emails will appear as though they are coming from you.  Here are some helpful tips on what to expect and to keep you and your finances safe:

 

·         If you are going to shop online, do so directly from the retailer’s website.  Do not use links contained in emails.  Links in emails can be deceiving.  For example, this link says it will take you to http://www.bestbuy.com/ – click the link and see where it takes you.  If you hold your mouse over the link without clicking it, a tool tip will appear telling you what website it will really take you to.

·         If the email has an attachment, don’t open it!  Legitimate retailers will not send you marketing emails with attachments.

·         If you get an email asking you to log into your account to update information, do not click on any links in the email.  Banks do not ask you to do this.  Citibank now includes the following graphic in their emails to let you know it comes from them.  It will include the last four digits of your account number and show you your “Member Since” date.

·         Never respond to an email asking for personal information such as social security number, account numbers, user names or passwords.

·         Any email you receive that says it came from your email address is fake and should be deleted immediately (unless of course you do send yourself emails).

·         If an email is urging you to do something, think twice about it.  If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

·         Sometimes a friend or family member’s computer can be compromised and a spammer can get your email that way.  Then they can make the email look like it is coming from someone you trust.  Remember the telephone?  It’s how most of us once communicated back in the dark ages.  If you get an email from someone you trust that doesn’t look right, call them and ask them if they sent it.

Aging & Eye Health
Added ›04/01/2011 12:51:45 PM
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Aging and eyesight



Does getting older necessarily mean bad eyesight?

No. Growing older does not always mean you see poorly. Many older people have relatively good eyesight well into their eighties and beyond. But age can bring changes that may weaken your eyes, making reading in particular more difficult. There are some easy things to try when these changes happen. You might add brighter lights in more places around the house--like at work counters, stairways, and favorite reading places. This may help you see better and can sometimes prevent accidents caused by weak eyesight. You might need prescription glasses for reading, or simple reading glasses bought at the drug store might be enough. If you already have eyeglasses, you might need a stronger prescription.

Cataracts are common among older people. Cataracts are cloudy areas in part or all of the eye lens. The lens is usually clear and let’s light through. Cataracts keep light from easily passing through the lens, and this causes loss of eyesight. Cataracts often form slowly and cause no pain, redness, or tearing in the eye. If a cataract becomes large or thick, it usually can be removed by surgery.

Glaucoma is another common eye disease. This is the result of too much fluid pressure inside the eye. It can lead to vision loss and blindness. The cause of glaucoma is unknown. African-American women over the age of forty are at particular risk for glaucoma, as are all women over 60. If treated early, glaucoma often can be controlled and blindness prevented. To find glaucoma, the eye doctor will look at your eyes through dilated pupils. Treatment may be prescription eye drops, oral medications, or surgery. Most people with glaucoma have no early symptoms or pain from increased pressure.

As always, it is important to see your doctor regularly to check on your eye sight and other related problems
Dental Health and Mental Health
Added ›04/01/2011 12:38:03 PM

10.  Dental health and mental health. US News and World Reports’ HealthDay has an article on a study in Japan that attempted to find a correlation between a person’s dental health and psychiatric condition. 4,000 participants aged 65 and older were given exams in both areas:

Compared with participants who still had many of their natural teeth, those with fewer or no teeth were much more likely to have experienced some memory loss or have early-stage Alzheimer’s disease.

The researcher theorized that tooth infections may cause inflammatory substances to be released that damage the brain.

Participants with symptoms of memory loss tended to report that they had visited the dentist rarely, if at all. Dr. Nozomi Okamoto, the study's principal investigator, said that this may be one explanation for the study's findings but suggested that there may be other links between tooth loss and memory problems.

"Infections in the gums that can lead to tooth loss may release inflammatory substances, which in turn will enhance the brain inflammation that cause neuronal death and hasten memory loss," she said in a news release from the journal's publisher. "The loss of sensory receptors around the teeth is linked to some of the dying neurons."

This may lead to a vicious cycle, Okamoto explained. The loss of these brain connections can cause more teeth to fall out, further contributing to cognitive decline. www.health.usnews.com

Learn More about the Affordable Care Act
Added ›04/01/2011 12:19:32 PM

1.  Affordable Care Act to improve quality of care for people with Medicare. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) today released proposed new rules to help doctors, hospitals, and other health care providers better coordinate care for Medicare patients through Accountable Care Organizations (ACOs). The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) today released proposed new rules to help doctors, hospitals, and other health care providers better coordinate care for Medicare patients through Accountable Care Organizations (ACOs).  ACOs create incentives for health care providers to work together to treat an individual patient across care settings – including doctor’s offices, hospitals, and long-term care facilities. The Medicare Shared Savings Program will reward ACOs that lower health care costs while meeting performance standards on quality of care and putting patients first.  Patient and provider participation in an ACO is purely voluntary.

The proposed new rules will help doctors, hospitals, and other providers form ACOs and are now available for public comment.  HHS also announced it will hold a series of open-door forums and listening sessions during the comment period to help the public understand what the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS), the agency administering the ACO program, is proposing to do and to ensure that the public understands how to participate in the formal comment process.

“The Affordable Care Act is putting patients and their doctors in control of their health care,” said HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius.  “For too long, it has been too difficult for health care providers to work together to coordinate and improve the care their patients receive. That has real consequences: patients have gaps in their care, receive duplicative care, or are at increased risk of suffering from medical mistakes.  Accountable Care Organizations will improve coordination and communication among doctors and hospitals, improve the quality of the care their patients receive, and help lower costs.”

By focusing on the needs of patients and linking payment rewards to outcomes, this delivery system reform, as part of the Affordable Care Act, will help improve the health of individuals and communities while saving as much as $960 million over three years for the Medicare program. 

Under the proposal, ACOs – teams of doctors, hospitals, and other health care providers and suppliers working together – would coordinate and improve care for patients with Original Medicare (that is, who are not in Medicare Advantage private health plans). To share in savings, ACOs would meet quality standards in five key areas:

·                                             Patient/caregiver care experiences

·                                             Care coordination

·                                             Patient safety

·                                             Preventive health

·                                             At-risk population/frail elderly health.

The proposed rules also include strong protections to ensure patients do not have their care choices limited by an ACO. For immediate release: Thursday, March 31, 2011  
Are you 60 yrs or older? Sign up for Craft Class
Added ›03/31/2011 1:04:16 PM

The Brick Township Senior Center located at 373 Adamston Road is hosting craft classes on the following dates: Tuesday, April 12th and Tuesday May 3rd.  The Instructor and all supplies are donated by Laurelton Village.   To participate in craft class

you must be sixty years and older.  Please call to register for this event at 732-920-8686.

April 2011 calendar
Added ›03/31/2011 11:40:20 AM

 

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

 

 

  AARP Income Tax Assistance

    Mondays through April 11th.

           Call 732-920-8686

             for appointment

 

**Brain Aerobics Class held at the           

 Municipal Complex, 401 Chambers Bridge Road, Brick, NJ otherwise known as Town Hall.   Please call                             

732-262-1050   r class confirmation.

 

 

 

Brick Budget Referendum

Information Meeting

April 1st  10 am

1         Brick Referendum           

        Info Meeting  10:00    

             Tai Chi  9:00-10:00

        Humming Birds 10:00-11:00     

 Conversational English10:00-11:00

   Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

   Ballroom Dancing  1:00-2:00           

 

4               

Arm Exercise 10:30-11:00

Chair/Aerobics 11:00-12:00

            Tai Chi  12:45-1:45   Water/Oil/Acrylic Class  1:45-3:45

 5 

      Presentation 10:15     “Balance”

      Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

       

6

  

    Line Dancing I

                                   10:00-12:00

      Line Dancing II

7      

         D.J. Dancing  9:30-11:00

Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

Movie  12:00-2:00

 

8         Tai Chi  9:00-10:00

      Humming Birds 10:00-11:00     

Conversational English10:00-11:00

   Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

   Ballroom Dancing  1:00-2:00

 

11         

    Arm Exercise 10:30-11:00

Chair/Aerobics 11:00-12:00

            Tai Chi  12:45-1:45   Water/Oil/Acrylic Class  1:45-3:45

12        

             Volunteer Brunch  9:15

     Multi-Cultural Club  10:00-11:00

     Craft & Ceramic Class  10:00-11:00

        Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

   Chronic Management  12:30-3:00

        Brain Aerobics** 1:00-2:15

 

13                

      Line Dancing I

                                   10:00-12:00

      Line Dancing II

14     

        Blood Pressure  9:30-11:00

D.J. Dancing  9:30-11:00

Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

Movie  12:00-2:00

Self Defense  2:30-3:30

15           

              Tai Chi  9:00-10:00

        Humming Birds 10:00-11:00     

 Conversational English10:00-11:00

   Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

       Ballroom Dancing  1:00-2:00                      

 

18      

        Arm Exercise 10:30-11:00

Chair/Aerobics 11:00-12:00

            Tai Chi  12:45-1:45   Water/Oil/Acrylic Class  1:45-3:45

 19    

Presentation  8:00 am  “Fishing Club”

    (annual membership meeting)

    Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00  

  Chronic Management  12:30-3:00

 

20

      Line Dancing I

                                   10:00-12:00

      Line Dancing II

21      

          D.J. Dancing  9:30-11:00

Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

Movie  12:00-2:00

 

22          Tai Chi  9:00-10:00

        Humming Birds 10:00-11:00     

 Conversational English10:00-11:00

   Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

       Ballroom Dancing  1:00-2:00

 

25       Literary Club  9:45-10:45  

Arm Exercise 10:30-11:00

Chair/Aerobics 11:00-12:00

              Tai Chi  12:45-1:45   Water/Oil/Acrylic Class  1:45-3:45

26    Presentation  10:15   “Podiatry”

         Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00  

    Chronic Management  12:30-3:00

        Brain Aerobics** 1:00-2:15      

Surf Fishing 7:00 am   Brick Beach II

27        School Budget Election

         Brick Township

     Referendum Question                  

        11:00am -9:00 pm

   All Activities Cancelled

28       

          D.J. Dancing  9:30-11:00

Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

Movie  12:00-2:00

Self Defense  2:30-3:30

29          Tai Chi  9:00-10:00

        Humming Birds 10:00-11:00     

 Conversational English10:00-11:00

   Chair/Aerobics  11:00-12:00

       Ballroom Dancing  1:00-2:00

 

Call 24 hours in advance to reserve Bus (732-262-2621) & Nutrition Lunch (732-920-0700)      www.bricktownship.net         Must be 60 Years or Older   

OCEAN RIDE TRANSPORTATION FOR SENIORS
Added ›03/23/2011 10:00:01 AM

How To Reach Ocean Ride

 Hours: Mon-Fri (8:30am-4:30pm)
 Phone: (732) 736-8989
 Toll-free: (877) 929-2082
 TTY: (732) 797-2679
 Press 1: For a Reservationist
 Press 2: To request a Return Trip
 Press 3: For Administration
 Press 4: For Route Information
 Press 5: Comment & Complaints
 Press 0: For an Operator

You can email Ocean Ride at :
OceanRideInfo@co.ocean.nj.us
Use our contact form


Transportation Services
Kathleen C. Edmond, Director
1959 Route 9
P.O. Box 2191
Toms River, NJ 08754-2191


The Department of Transportation Services county transit system, Ocean Ride, includes two major services. the Reserve-A-Ride Program and local bus routes. Reserve-A-Ride provides door-to-door, non-emergency medical transportation service to seniors (age 60 and over) and person with disabilities. This service is offered by advanced registration basis primarily to destinations within Ocean County. Pre-registration is required.
 Ocean County Transportation Information and Updates

Transportation Regular Meeting:

The Ocean County Transportation Advisory Committee for Senior Citizens and Persons with Disabilities Meeting will be held Thursday, May 19, 2011 at 1:30 PM at the Ocean County Transportation Facility at 1959 Route 9 in Toms River. Please call 732-736-8989, ext. 244 if you have any questions.

Get Information on MOM

Ocean County continues its support of the proposed Monmouth-Ocean-Middlesex rail line also referred to as MOM. For information on the proposed rail line
 Click here to view the website

wecommute program

Ocean County employees can now take advantage of a new carpool service sponsored by the Ocean County Board of Chosen Freeholders and COAST TMA.

  Click here for more information and to enter your name along with your work and home addresses into the carpool partner database.

The Ocean County Department of Transportation Services will hold annual Public Hearing on Thursday, June 16, 2011 at 1:00 PM in the Ocean County Administration Building located at 101 Hooper Avenue, Room 119 in Toms River.

A copy of the Ocean Ride Service Bulletin which describes the changes to the Ocean Ride system is available  here for review.

The Ocean Ride transportation system currently includes 14 bus routes which operate throughout Ocean County ( PDF map of routes). The routes are designed to connect key residential areas with popular destinations such as local governmental facilities, healthcare, shopping, employment, social services and other transit connections. The bus routes operate on a fixed schedule, making it easy for you to plan your trip!
To get a bus schedule, you can:
Ocean Ride is a service of the Ocean County Board of Chosen Freeholders.

Freeholder Gerry P. Little is the Freeholder Liaison for the Department of Transportation Services.

Funding for the Ocean Ride System is provided by County tax dollars as well as state and federal grants. The Board of Chosen Freeholders contribute more than 51% of the total annual budget.

Contact Phone numbers for Ocean Ride Transportation

Phone: (732) 736-8989 and Press 1
Toll Free Southern Ocean County Residents : (877) 929-2082
Hearing Impaired - TTY: (732) 797-2679

CAREGIVER RESOURCES PART1
Added ›03/23/2011 9:24:35 AM

Caregiver

Resources

 

 

 

 

OCEAN COUNTY OFFICE OF SENIOR SERVICES

1027 HOOPER AVENUE BLDG.2, FIRST FLOOR

P.O. BOX 2191

TOMS RIVER, NJ 08754-732-929-2091

18006684899

18772223737

 

 

www.co.ocean.nj.us

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The enclosed information has been compiled to assist and support family caregivers. Please feel free to call the Office of Senior Services regarding the following information


 

CAREGIVER RESOURCES

 

 

CATHOLIC CHARITIES                                                                     732-350-4120

Fix-it Program                                                                                                  Ext. 106

88 Schoolhouse Road, Suite #2, Whiting, NJ 08759

 

This service provides minor home modification to assist the caregivers.

 

 

KIMBALL CAREGIVER EDUCATION &                                      732-730-1236

SUPPORT PROGRAM

The Center for Healthy Living

198 Prospect Street, Lakewood, NJ 08701

 

Caregiver Support & Educational Programs.

 

 

COMMUNITY SERVICES INC.                                                         732-367-1400

Congregate Nutrition, Home Delivered Meals & Outreach

225 Fourth Street, Lakewood, NJ 08701

 

 

JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES                                                           732-363-8010

301 Madison Avenue, Lakewood, NJ 08701

 

This service provides caregiver counseling and support.

 

 

LAKEWOOD KOSHER MEALS &                                                  732-901-6001

CAREGIVER SUPPORT PROGRAM

500 West Kennedy Boulevard, Lakewood, NJ 08701

 

This service provides caregiver counseling and support.

 

 

OCEAN COUNTY BOARD OF SOCIAL SERVICES                   732-349-1500

1027 Hooper Avenue, Bldg. 4, Toms River, NJ 08753 Press”0”, Ask for Social Services Intake

 

In Home Caregiver and Education, Home Modification and Personal Response (PERS).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This service provides in home education to caregivers


COMMUNITY MEDICAL CENTER                                              1-800-621-0096

The Lighthouse

Senior Membership Program

591 Lakehurst Road, Toms River, NJ 08755

 

Caregiver Support & Educational Programs.

 

 

ELDERMED AT SOCH                                                                        609-978-3559

SOUTHERN OCEAN COUNTY HOSPITAL FAMILY RESOURCE CENTER

The Ocean Club, 700 Route 9 South, Stafford Township, NJ 08092

 

Caregiver Support & Educational Programs.

 

SENIOR GUIDANCE PROGRAM                                                    732-785-1900

COUNSELING SERVICES

1500 Route 88 West, Brick, NJ 08723

 

VISITING HOMECARE SERVICE OF OCEAN COUNTY          732-244-5565

105 Sunset Avenue, Toms River, NJ 08755                                                1-800-511-1510

Mailing Address: CN 2010, Toms River, NJ 08754

 

Homemaker, Home Health Aide, Adult Day Care, Companion and/or Respite Care, Caregiver

Education & Support Groups.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Caregiver Resources List was compiled by the Ocean County Office of Senior Services: 2/26/08DR 8/19/08CG

1/28/09CG6/4/09CG 3/5/10 CG10/12/10CG


 

NJ EASE INFORMATION & ASSISTANCE SITES FOR CAREGIVERS

 

 

OCEAN COUNTY OFFICE OF SENIOR SERVICES                  732-929-2091

1027 Hooper Avenue, Bldg. 2, Toms River, NJ 08754                                   800-668-4899

877-222-3737

 

 

BERKELEY SENIOR OUTREACH                                                  732-244-9600

Berkeley Twp. Municipal Bldg.

Pinewald-Keswick Road, Bayville, NJ 08721

 

 

BRICK SENIOR CENTER & OUTREACH                                     732-920-8686

VFW Building

373 Adamston Road, Brick NJ 08723

 

 

COMMUNITY SERVICES INC. OUTREACH                                732-367-1400

225 Fourth Street, Lakewood, NJ 08701

 

 

TOMS RIVER  SENIOR CENTER & OUTREACH                       732-341-1000

652 Garfield Avenue, Toms River, NJ 08753                                                        Ext. 8461

 

 

LONG BEACH ISLAND SENIOR CENTER & OUTREACH  609-494-8861

4700 Long Beach Boulevard, Brant Beach, NJ 08008

 

 

MANCHESTER TWP. SENIOR OUTREACH                                732-657-8121

1 Colonial Drive, Manchester, NJ 08759                                                               Ext. 5002

 

 

SHORE AREA OUTREACH (PT. PLEASANT)                             732-892-5514

Durand Masonic Hall, Rt. 35S & NJ Avenues, Pt. Pleasant, NJ 08742


GERIATRIC EVALUATION & MANAGEMENT PROGRAMS

 

 

Multidisciplinary team approach offering comprehensive, consultative care.

 

 

 

 

 

ELIZABETH BENJAMIN                                                                   732-923-7550

SPECIAL CARE CENTER

Monmouth Medical Center

300 Second Avenue, Long Branch, NJ 07740

 

 

 

 

 

COPSA                                                                                                    800-424-2494

Institute for Alzheimer’s Disease and Related Disorders

University Behavioral HealthCare

University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey

100 Metroplex Dr. Suite 200 Edison, NJ 08812

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This listing of agencies or services is strictly informational and in no way indicates an endorsement; nor does the absence of any agency or service from this list signify disapproval.


ADULT DAY CARE

 

*A Friend’s House (Visiting HomeCare Service of Ocean County) 732-244-5565 Ext 237

105 Sunset Avenue, P.O. Box 2010, Toms River, NJ 08754                                800-511-1510

 

*A Friend’s House-St. Francis Community Center                            609-494-6232

4700 Long Beach Boulevard, Brant Beach, NJ 08008

 

Hours:        9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m., Monday through Friday

Services:    A Friend’s House is a social day care program for adults with Alzheimers disease or related memory loss disorders. A safe respite for family caregivers is provided

as  well  as  therapeutic  activities  that  may  increase  orientation  and  stimulate memory.

 

 

**Karing with Kindness                                                                                 732-341-4321

245 Atlantic City Boulevard (Rt. 166), Beachwood, NJ 08722

 

Hours:        8:30 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., Monday through Friday

Saturday: Hours available upon request

Services:    This Social Day Care provides transportation, continental breakfast, home-style lunches  and  snacks,  stimulation,  cultural  activities,  socialization  with  peers,

entertainment, current events, exercise mobility, bingo games, prizes, birthday and holiday parties and Karaoke.

 

 

***Ambassador Medical Day Care Center                                                732-367-1133

619 River Avenue, Lakewood, NJ 08701

 

Hours:        7:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., Monday through Friday

Services:    Provides full range of medical and social services, group & individual activities, recreation,    counseling,    medical    and   social    evaluation,    health    screening,

occupational therapy, physical, socialization and speech therapy. Also available:

transportation, meals (light breakfast, hot lunch) and a full-time nursing staff.

 

 

**Ocean View                                                                                              732-370-9400

699 Cross Street, Lakewood, NJ 08701

 

Hours:        8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Monday through Thursday

8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Friday

Services:    Ocean  View  is  an  all-inclusive  Medical  Day  Care  Program. Services include transportation,  meals,  individualized  medical  care  plans,  socialization,  group

outings, activities, physical, occupational, and speech therapy, dental, podiatrist and much more. The goal is for clients to remain living at home for as long as

possible and provide respite for caregivers.


***Seacrest Village Adult Day Care                                                              609-296-9292

The Pavilion at Seacrest Village

1001 Center Street, Little Egg Harbor, NJ 08087

 

Hours:        8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., Monday through Friday

Services:    Seacrest offers a full service day program for older adults with special needs, providing an enriching alternative to daytime home care and residential placement.

Seacrest offers nursing care, counseling, therapeutic activities, meals and snacks, personal hygiene and bathing, and more. Also available: transportation and recreational activities.

 

***Whiting Health Care Center Independence Place                              732-849-4969

3000 Hilltop Road, Whiting, NJ 08759

 

Hours:        8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., Monday through Friday

Services:    Provides skilled nursing and structured program of therapeutic activities to meet medical and social needs of older adults within supportive environment. Nursing

care, social services, activities, hot meal, therapies and personal care. Also available: transportation, meals and nursing supervision.

 

***Young at Heart                                                                                       732-899-1331

2125 Route 88, Brick, NJ 08724

 

Hours:        8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., Monday through Friday

Services:         Young at Heart is an adult health & social day program that serves clients with physical  and  cognitive  limitations.  Also  available:  transportation,  meals  and nursing supervision.

 

 

***Young at Heart                                                                                       732-928-9222

115 Grawtown Road, Jackson, NJ 08527

 

Hours:        8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., Monday through Friday

Services:    Young at Heart is an adult health & social day program that serves clients with physical  and  cognitive  limitations.  Also  available:  transportation,  meals  and nursing supervision.

 

 

*NJ Department of Health and Senior Services Alzheimer’s Dementia Program, Provides funding for adult day care; financial eligibility criteria; apply through adult day care center.

 

**List of Agencies approved by the Division of Health and Senior Services, Office of the Division of

Consumer Support, for the Jersey Assistance for Community Caregivers Program (JACC)

 

***Agency accepts JACC and Department of Health and Senior Services Alzheimer’s DementiaGrant This list of agencies or services is strictly informational and in no way indicates an endorsement; nor does the absence of any agency or service from this list signify disapprovalThe Adult Day Care list was compiled by the Ocean County Office of Senior Services: 3/6/08JR

8/19/08 CG 1/28/09 CG3/11/09 CG6/4/09CG 3/5/10 CG10/12/10 CG


RESPITE/HOMECARE

 

 

 

 

JACC (Jersey Assistance for Community Caregiving)                    732-929-2091

800-668-4899

 

 

This program provides state funded assistance in the form of a broad array of in home services and supports that enable an individual at risk of being placed in a nursing home to remain in their own home. The program is intended to supplement and strengthen the efforts of family and friends. There are both financial and clinical eligibility criteria. Call for details.

 

 

 

 

GLOBAL OPTIONS FOR LONG TERM CARE                            732-349-1500

Ocean County Board of Social Services             Press”0”, ask  for Adult Medicaid

 

 

This Medicaid Waiver program provides community based, in-home services and supports that enable an individual at risk of future placement in a nursing home to remain in their own home or in an assisted living facility based on the assessed need. There are both financial and clinical eligibility criteria. Call for details.

 

 

 

 

 

STATEWIDE RESPITE CARE PROGRAM                                    732-349-1500

Ocean County Board of Social Services         Press0”, ask for State Wide Respite

 

 

This program provides respite services to families experiencing fatigue and stress due to long- term caregiver of frail, elderly and/or disabled members. Priority is given to families where the impaired member is at risk of long-term institutionalization due to the inability of the caregiver to continue in the role.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Respite/Home Care List was compiled by the Ocean County Office of Senior Services: Original 2/26/08DR 8/19/08 CG 1/28/09 CG6/4/09CG

3/5/10CG110/12/10CG


VOLUNTEER CAREGIVER ORGANIZATIONS

 

 

There are two (2) Interfaith Volunteer Caregiver organizations in Ocean County providing volunteer services for the frail, disabled and homebound elderly. Services such as volunteer transportation, shopping, visiting, calling, respite, etc., are provided. Additionally, both organizations provide Alzheimer’s Care  Programs specifically  for  Alzheimer’s clients  and caregivers. The Toms River office has a Bilingual Outreach Coordinator. One organization serves the Northern area and the other serves the Southern area.

 

 

NORTHERN AREA Caregiver Volunteers of Central Jersey

 

 

Email: info@caregivervolunteers.org

Web Site: www.caregivervolunteers.org

 

 

Main Office and Multicultural Outreach           Whiting Satellite Office

253 Chestnut Street                                     30 Lacey Road

Toms River, NJ 08753                               Whiting, NJ 08759 (732) 505-CARE (2273)                                 (732) 849-9400

FAX: (732) 505-9445

 

 

Alzheimer’s Respite Care Program

253 Chestnut Street

Toms River, NJ 08753 (732) 505-0031

FAX: (732) 505-9445

 

 

 

 

 

SOUTHERN AREA

 

 

Interfaith Health & Support                    Alzheimer’s Respite Care

Services                                                Program

Of Southern Ocean County, Inc.       Interfaith Health & Support of Southern

Ocean County, Inc.

1140 Rte. 72 West                                  1140 Rte. 72 West Manahawkin, NJ 08050                            Manahawkin, NJ 08050 (609) 978-3839                                        (609) 978-3839

FAX: (609) 978-8991                              FAX: (609) 978-8991

Email: Montgomery@SOCH.com

10/12/10


MEDICARE CERTIFIED HOME HEALTH (VISITING NURSE) AGENCIES

 

 

COMMUNITY MEDICAL CENTER HOME HEALTH PROGRAM               732-818-6800

800-338-3131

HOLY REDEEMER HOME CARE AND HOSPICE                                       888-678-8678

 

OCEAN COUNTY HEALTH DEPARTMENT                                               732-341-9700

 

MERIDIAN HOME HEALTH CARE                                                              732-206-8100

800-894-6885

 

 

LIST OF HOME HEALTH CARE AGENCIES APPROVED BY MEDICAID

 

AFFORDABLE SENIOR HC                                                                        732-279-4495

 

 

BAYADA NURSES                                                                                       732-818-9898

 

CAROUSEL OF HOME CARE, INC (NORTHERN OCEAN COUNTY ONLY)732-303-0245

 

CAVALIER SENIOR CARE, INC.                                                                 609-607-8300

888-832-2228

 

CENTRAL JERSEY HEALTHERAPY                                                           732-551-2329

 

COMFORT KEEPERS                                                                                   732-530-3636

 

COMPLETE COMPETENT CARE                                                                732-206-1047

 

CONFIDENT CARE                                                                                      732-617-5900

 

CUIDADO CASERO HOME HEALTH                                                          732-477-3626

 

HELP SOLUTIONS                                                                                      732-364-7322

 

HOME CARE FOR YOU                                                                              609-971-9009

 

HOME INSTEAD                                                                                          732-901-5500

 

HOME SWEET HOME CARE                                                                       732-886-2273

 

INTERIM HEALTH CARE                                                                            732-341-0330

 

KARING WITH KINDNESS                                                                         732-341-4500

 

LIBERTY HEALTH CARE SERVICE                                                           732-849-1116


LOVING CARE                                                                                             732-270-5788

 

MAXIM HEALTH CARE (Southern Ocean up to Forked River)                     609-569-1777

 

MIDPOINT HEALTH CARE SERVICE                                                         732-341-2060

 

NURSE FINDERS INC.                                                                                 732-341-0134

 

PERSONAL TOUCH HOME CARE                                                               732-774-2840

 

PREFERRED HEALTH MATES                                                                   732-840-5566

800-603-2273

 

 

PROHOME HEALTH CARE, INC.                                                                732-920-4663

 

RIGHT AT HOME                                                                                         732-451-0120

609-597-1300

 

TOWNE NURSING STAFF INC.                                                                  732-363-3939

 

VISITING HOMECARE SERVICES OF OCEAN COUNTY                         732-244-5565

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This list of agencies or services is strictly informational and in no way indicates an endorsement; nor does the absence of any agency or service from this list signify disapproval.


 

ADORING CAREGIVERS LLC                                                                    732-383-5702

 

AFFORDABLE SENIOR HOME CARE *                                                      732-279-4495

 

ALL ABOUT CARE                                                                                      732-477-3005

 

BAYADA NURSES INC. *                                                                            732-818-9898

 

BP SENIOR CARE                                                                                        732-363-0364

 

BRIGHTSTAR HEALTH CARE                                                                    732-244-7303

 

CAROUSEL OF HOME CARE *                                                                   732-303-0245

 

CAVALIER SENIOR CARE, INC. *                                                              609-607-8300

888-832-2228

 

CENTRAL JERSEY HEALTHERAPY *                                                        732-551-2329

 

COMFORT KEEPERS *                                                                                732-530-3636

 

COMFORT KEEPERS (TOMS RIVER) *                                                      732-557-0010

 

CUIDADO CASERO HOME HEALTH                                                          732-477-3626

 

FIRST CHOICE HOME CARE                                                                      732-240-9333

 

GENTLE CARE HOME SERVICES, INC. *                                                  732-777-0021

 

HOME CARE FOR YOU, INC. *                                                                  609-971-9009

 

HOME HELPERS (Brick, Pt. Pleasant, Bay Head) *                                        732-202-0411

 

HOME HELPERS /   HELP SOLUTIONS*                                                    732-364-7322 (Lakewood, Jackson, Manchester, Toms River, Whiting)

 

HOME INSTEAD SENIOR CARE *                                                              732-901-5500

 

HOME SWEET HOME CARE, INC.*                                                            732-886-2273

 

HOME WATCH CARE GIVERS                                                                  609-971-9945


HUMANE CONCEPTS HEALTHCARE                                                             908-265-9803

 

KARING WITH KINDNESS *                                                                       732-341-4500

 

LOVING CARE AGENCY ,INC *                                                                 732-270-5788

 

NURSES OF NJ                                                                                             732-213-3834

 

PERSONAL TOUCH HOME CARE*                                                            732-774-2840

 

PREFERRED HOME CARE AGENCY , INC.                                                609-822-8480

 

RIGHT AT HOME*                                                                                       732-451-0120

 

SWEET HOME SERVICES                                                                          732-349-0568

 

TOWNE NURSING STAFF INC.                                                                  732-363-3939

 

VISITING NURSE ASSOCIATION OF CENTRAL JERSEY *                      732-747-1204

800-862-3330

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*Agency also provides live in services upon request.

This list of agencies or services is strictly informational and in no way indicates an endorsement; nor does the absence of any agency or service from this list signify disapproval   2/26/08DR 8/19/08 CG 1/28/09 CG6/4/09 CG 3/5/10 CG10/12/10 CG


 

CHORE SERVICE Includes services needed to maintain the home in a clean, sanitary and safe environment such as washing windows, moving heavy furniture, change of screens, and outside yard work depending on the agency.

 

 

AFFORDABLE SENIOR HOME CARE                                                         732-279-4495

 

CAVALIER SENIOR CARE (Light Housekeeping only)                                  609-607-8300

 

COMFORT KEEPERS (Light Housekeeping, transportation to stores)             732-530-3636

 

KARING WITH KINDNESS                                                                          732-341-4500

 

SWEET HOME SERVICES                                                                           732-349-0568

 

 

ENVIRONMENTAL   ACCESSIBILITY   ADAPTATIONS      The   companies   below specialize in providing products such as ramps, ceilings, stair, and wheelchair lifts. Some provide construction, such as bathroom and kitchen adaptations for access.

 

ABBY LIFTS INC. (Ramps)                                                                          732-240-0446

 

 

ACCESSIBILITY DESIGN ASSOCIATES (Evaluations and modifications)    732-901-6644

 

ACCESSIBLE HOMES (Evaluations and modifications)                                  732-886-5800

 

ADAPTIVE HOME THERAPY (Evaluations and recommendations)                732-886-6996

 

AMERICAN RAMP SYSTEMS INC. (Ramps)                                               800-649-5215

 

 

DESIGN BUILD CONSTRUCTION (MODIFICATIONS)                              732-270-9700

 

PERFORMANCE VAN SHOP (Call for details)                                              856-848-3470

 

RAND’S (Evaluations, recommendations and portable ramps)                          732-255-3211

 

HOME DELIVERED MEALS

 

 

Mom’s Meals 1-866-204-6111

This company provides affordable meals that are prepared, packaged and delivered fresh with simple microwave heating instructions. For further information and a sample of their variety of over 30 meals, you can also visit their website at www.momsmeals.com


MEDICARE CERTIFIED HOSPICE PROGRAMS

 

 

AtlantiCare Hospice                                                                                        609-407-2020

1406 Doughty Road, Egg Harbor Township, NJ 08234

 

Care Alternatives                                                                                            908-931-9080

70 Jackson Drive Suite 200, Cranford, NJ 07016

 

Caring Hospice                                                                                               732-661-9373

525 State Hwy. 70, Lakewood, NJ 08701

 

Embracing Hospice Care                                                                                 732-974-2545

2101 Rt. 34 South, Suite B, Wall, NJ 07719

 

Holisticare Hospice LLC                                                                                 732-341-0662

1415 Hooper Ave., Suite 203,Toms River, NJ 08753

 

Holy Redeemer Home Care and Hospice                                                         732-240-2449

1228 State Hwy. 37 W, Toms River, NJ 08753                                                800-488-2669

 

Hospice of New Jersey                                                                                   732-818-3460

40 Bey Lea Road, Suite A 202, Toms River, NJ 08753

 

Meridian Hospice                                                                                            800-655-2555

1340 Suite A-3 Campus Pkwy, Neptune, NJ 07753

 

Southern Ocean Home Health and Hospice                                                      609-489-0252

1140 Rt. 72 W, Manahawkin NJ 08050

 

Van Dyke Hospice Community Medical Center                                                732-818-6800

State Hwy. 37, Toms River, NJ 08753

 

Vitas Hospice                                                                                                 732-389-0066

1 Meridian Road, Eatontown, NJ 07724

 

VNA of Central Jersey Hospice Program                                                         800-862-3330

176 Riverside Ave Red Bank, NJ 07701

 

Hospice List was compiled by the Ocean County Office of Senior Services: Original DR 8/19/08 CG1/28/09 6/4/09 CG  3/5/10CG10/12/10CG

 

 

WEBSITES

 

OCEAN COUNTY

 

www.co.ocean.nj.us

HOSPITAL COMPARE

 

www.hospitalcompare.hhs.gov

NURSING HOME COMPARE

 

www.medicare.gov/NHCompare

HOME HEALTH COMPARE

 

www.medicare.gov/HHCompare

DIALYSIS FACILITY COMPARE

 

www.medicare.gov/Dialysis


Ten Warning Signs:

Your Older Family Member May Need Help

 

The Eldercare Locator, a public service of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ Administration on Aging, has produced a guide of “10 warning signs” to help families and older Americans determine if help is needed.    Any one of the behaviors listed may or may not indicate that an action should be taken and your family member’s physician should be kept informed of physical or psychological behavior changes.

 

Has your family member:

 

    Changed eating habits within the last year resulting in weight loss, having no appetite, or missed meals?

 

 

    Neglected personal hygiene resulting in wearing dirty clothes, body odor, bad breath, neglected nails and teeth, sores on the skin?

 

 

    Neglected their home so it is not as clean or sanitary as you remember growing up?

 

 

    Exhibited inappropriate behavior by being unusually loud or quiet, paranoid, agitated, making phone calls at all hours?

 

 

    Changed relationship patterns such that friends and neighbors have expressed concerns?

 

 

    Had physical problems such as burns or injury marks resulting from general weakness, forgetfulness, or possible misuse of alcohol or prescribed medications?

 

 

    Decreased or stopped participating in activities that were previously important to them such as bridge or a book club, dining with friends, or attending religious services?

 

 

    Exhibited forgetfulness resulting in unopened mail, piling newspapers, not filling their prescriptions, or missed appointments?

 

 

    Mishandled finances such as not paying bills, losing money, paying bills twice or more, or hiding money?

 

 

    Made unusual purchases such as buying more than one magazine subscription of the same magazine, entered an unusual amount of contests, increased usage of purchasing from television advertisements?


MANAGING STRESS OF CAREGIVING

Work within your own limits of energy, time, and know-how

 

Take time to relax

 

      Eliminate the “Should’s” and “If only I had time statements.     Ease up on yourself by praising what you do accomplish. Don’t expect more than your human abilities allow.

      Set aside time each day for yourself, no matter how small.

      Rest your mind frequently with short breaks to look at flowers or a tree, breathe deeply, or visualize a peaceful beautiful place from memory.

      Keep a journal of feelings.  Note in detail the things you have done to ease your loved one’s burden.

      Have an understanding friend whom you can call or visit when you need a lift.

      Join a support group or seek counseling.

      Allow quiet time for prayer or meditation.

Add humor to your life

ƒ    Buy a page-a-day calendar with cartoons.

ƒ    Read the daily comics in the newspaper.

ƒ    Share laughter with your loved one.

ƒ    Rent comic movies or cassette tapes.

ƒ    Ask friends to save jokes and cartoons for you.

 

BALANCING CAREGIVING NEEDS AND SELF NEEDS

 

You are the only one who can meet your needs

Who are you beyond the caregiving role?

Does your self worth come from the need to be needed?

How will you use your time when the role ends?

 

What you can do for yourself

   Maintain outside interests.

   Nurture your sense of purpose and worth,

   Create activities to look forward to for yourself.

   Take care of your physical and emotional needs.

   Take care of your appearance.

   Have one part of your life that is just yours, away from the caregiving role.

   Have several activities, which you turn to for “in-house vacations”.

   Indulge yourself with a treat now and then.

   Surround yourself with people who understand.

   Join a support group or counseling sessions.

     When possible, talk about your anger or feelings with the person who is ill.

 

Taken from Keys to Survival for Caregivers by Mary K. Kouri, Ph.D.

Compiled by Louanne Kane, M.S.


COMMUNICATION TECHNIQUES

 

 

   “I’d  like  to  talk  about  the  appreciation’s  and  the  regrets  both  of  us  have  in  this relationship. Are you willing to set aside a time when we could do that soon?”

 

     Suggest that you take turns talking and that each of you agrees not to interrupt the other.

 

   Ask directly for what you want, for example, “Will you forgive me for that?” or “Will you reassure me that you love me?”

 

   Use “I” messages such as, “I feel or “I want..” or “I think.” rather than “You made me…” or “You always..” or “You should.

 

   Remember that human emotions are harmless in themselves and they don’t necessarily conform to logic.  In their actions, however, people can choose to channel their feeling into behaviors that uphold their personal and moral values and maintain mutual respect. When your thinking is muddled by strong negative emotions, pause and breathe deeply while you regain your clear-headedness.

 

   Look the other person in the eye and listen as he talks.  It’s an opportunity to learn about yourself and your loved one.   Often there are astonishing differences in the way two people experience the same event.

 

   If the ill person becomes insulting or abusive, say, “I want to talk with you, but I won’t listen to hurtful remarks.”             If the person continues, say, “I’ll come back after you are finished saying hurtful things”, and leave the room.

 

   Be as generous as you can in expressing your appreciation about the relationship.

 

 

 

 

Barriers to Communication

 

   Backing the other person into an emotional corner by saying, “You should have” or

“Why did you” or “If you loved me”.

 

     Challenging the other person’s reasons/rights to feel as he/she does.

 

   Hiding your tears.

 

   Defending your reasons or rights to feel as you do.

 

   Saying things you might regret later.


ANGER AND CAREGIVING

 

 

 

Sources of Anger

   Long-standing, unresolved conflicts with the care receiver.

   Disagreements  with  the  care  receiver  or  family  member  regarding  caregiving  or treatment.

   The ill persons irritating habits and personality traits that might be exaggerated by illness.

   Your sense of helplessness in alleviating these loved person’s pain or suffering.

   Your plans, goals, or expectations that are delayed or dashed as you devote yourself to caregiving.

   The duration, difficulty, or expense of caregiving.

 

Mismanaged Anger

   Spewing accusations, threats, or guilt-provoking tirades on family members, friends, the sick person, or care providers.

   Using physical force on the ill person.

   Denying that anger.

   Telling others about the problem instead of discussing it with the person involved.

   Seething and turning your anger inward to cause headaches, or other physical problems.

 

Constructive Management

   Admit the anger, you can control how you channel it into action.

Develop a variety of safety valves.

ƒ    Phone calls to friends who understand.

ƒ    Support group meetings.

ƒ    Brisk physical activity.

ƒ    Write a letter expressing the anger and destroy it.

ƒ    Schedule frequent breaks from caregiving activities.

   Explore solutions to the problem(s) with your loved one(s), if possible.

Ask what you need at this moment that you are not getting.

ƒ    Make direct requests or look for ways you can meet your needs.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Taken from Keys to Survival for Caregivers by Mary K. Kouri, Ph.D.

Compiled by Louanne Kane, M.S.


GUILT AND CAREGIVING

 

 

Differentiate between Legitimate Guilt, the remorse of deliberate wrongdoing or hurtful actions and Superfluous Guilt, self-reproach for imagined wrongdoings of human failings.

 

 

Guilt Reduction Techniques

 

 

Legitimate Guilt

   Recognize and validate your feelings of frustration and overload.

 

   Stop punishing yourself; instead use this situation as a learning experience to motivate you to plan alternative responses in the future.

 

   Rehearse the new behavior in advance.

 

   Offer an apology to your loved one, offer an expression of regret for your behavior and an explanation of what you will do differently in the future.

 

   Forgive yourself.

 

 

Superfluous guilt Recognize your unrealistic standards or falsehoods such as:

   You can do all things “perfectly”.

 

   You might improve the sick person’s lot by sacrificing your well-being.

 

   The misconceptions that entertaining negative thoughts or mischievous wishes will make them come true.

 

     The myth that misfortunes in people’s lives are punishments for wrongdoing.

 

   The idea that you should not get angry.

 

   The illusion that you can control your loved one’s fate.

 

 

Consider

   Joining a caregivers support group.

 

   Wishes and fantasies are harmless, unless you put them into action or punish yourself for having them.

 

   Make an exhaustive list of all your guilt(s).

 

   Choose items you want to change while maintaining a balance between your well-being and that of your loved one.

 

   Forgive yourself for your human imperfections.


GRIEF AND CAREGIVING

 

 

Losses that relate to Caregiving:

   Your loved one’s health and vigor

 

   Some of your loved one’s endearing personality traits

 

     Activities or interest you enjoyed together

 

   Plans and optimistic expectations for the future

 

   Your sense of security

 

     Time, energy, or money to engage in your special interests

 

   A pleasant daily routine

 

   Confidence in your ability to steer events in your life toward favorable outcomes

 

 

Fear of the future:

   More disability or pain for your loved one

 

   Increasing loneliness

 

   Less time for yourself

 

   Doubts about your own health

 

   Lack of confidence in your ability to cope with stress and emotional pain

 

   Anticipated emptiness when your loved one dies

 

 

Ineffective coping:

   Physical pain, irritability and panic attacks

 

   Distance emotionally from your loved one

 

   Devote self to caretaking at the expense of your own well-being

 

 

Effective Ways:

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Liver, Not Brain, May Be Origin Of Alzheimer’s Plaques

March 4, 2011

Adapted from the Scripps Research Institute

Unexpected results from a Scripps Research Institute and ModGene, LLC study could completely alter scientists' ideas about Alzheimer's disease—pointing to the liver instead of the brain as the source of the "amyloid" that deposits as brain plaques associated with this devastating condition. The findings could offer a relatively simple approach for Alzheimer's prevention and treatment.

The study was published online March 3 in The Journal of Neuroscience Research.

In the study, the scientists used a mouse model for Alzheimer's disease to identify genes that influence the amount of amyloid that accumulates in the brain. They found three genes that protected mice from brain amyloid accumulation and deposition. For each gene, lower expression in the liver protected the mouse brain. One of the genes encodes presenilin—a cell membrane protein believed to contribute to the development of human Alzheimer's.

"This unexpected finding holds promise for the development of new therapies to fight Alzheimer's," said Scripps Research Professor Greg Sutcliffe, who led the study. "This could greatly simplify the challenge of developing therapies and prevention." An estimated 5.1 million Americans have Alzheimer's disease, including nearly half of people age 85 and older. By 2050, the number of people age 65 and over with this disease will range from 11 million to 16 million unless science finds a way to prevent or effectively treat it.

As for the future of this research, Sutcliffe says he hopes to find a partner and investors to move the work into clinical trials and new drug development.

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